Sunday July 5, 2026

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Happy Sunday!

Life Update + The Journal Practice That's Resetting My Mind

Hey GlowGetter,

Grab your coffee. I've got a full life update for you, plus something that's quietly changed my mornings the last six months.

Life Update: He Moved Out (And I'm Doing Great)

My son moved out. He's on his own now, about 25 minutes away.

We still talk almost every day. I call him on my lunch break. Then again on my drive home, turns out we have the same work schedule, so it's become our little ritual. Not far. Just independent.

I'm so proud of him I could burst. And I'm doing better than I expected. No empty-house tears. Just a quiet, happy kind of pride.

The other big news: I started a new job. I'm now in project management, building and rolling out new loan products for a large national lender. And I love it.

More pay. A great team. Genuine flexibility. The kind of job that feels like a "yes" every single day.

Twenty-plus years in lending, and it finally feels like it's clicking into place at the perfect time, right as my house gets quieter and my own next chapter opens up.

Journaling & Gratitude: What's Actually Been Resetting My Mind

Here's the thing I want to share with you this week.

For years, I journaled off and on. Some weeks, every day. Then months, nothing.

The last six months? I've stuck with it. And it has completely reset how my brain feels, clearer, calmer, more excited about what's ahead. I want to walk you through why, and give you a few simple ways to try it too.

Why it works

Most of us can't hear what we actually want because our head is too full of yesterday's noise. Journaling is where that noise gets emptied out first.

The writing doesn't need to be good. It doesn't need to be quotable. Nobody will ever read it but you. The value is in the act, not the result.

Doing it first thing in the morning, before texts, before news, before anyone else's opinions get in, catches your thoughts in their most honest form.

And here's something I didn't expect: creative blocks and life blocks are often the same block. Clear one, and the other tends to loosen too.

Most importantly, consistency beats perfection. Three messy pages every day will do more for you than one polished page once a month.

The practice: Morning Pages

This is the one that changed things for me. Three full pages, longhand, stream of consciousness, first thing every morning. No rereading. No editing. Just let it pour out.

It's midlife, let yourself dream again. Give yourself permission on that page to want things.

Now, gratitude — because it works alongside journaling, not instead of it

One well-known 10-week study found that people who kept a gratitude journal reported being 25% happier than people who didn't, along with exercising more and having fewer health complaints. Your happiness level isn't as fixed as you think, you can actually move it.

Sleep improves too. In one study, patients who wrote down three things they were grateful for each night for three weeks reported sleeping longer and feeling more refreshed than a control group.

Gratitude also protects you from envy, resentment, and bitterness, it's not just a happy add-on, it's a buffer. And it makes your relationships stronger, because gratitude is really a social emotion, it's you noticing how much other people show up for you.

One honest note: gratitude doesn't come naturally to most of us. Even researchers who study it say it takes real, ongoing effort. That's normal. Keep going anyway.

A few easy ways to start

• The Weekly Five — once a week, write down just five things you're grateful for. Simple enough that you'll actually keep doing it.
• Coming to Your Senses — pause right now. Notice one thing you can see, hear, or touch. Appreciate it for a second.
• A Visual Anchor — leave a small note somewhere you'll see it every day. Mirror, dashboard, desk. A daily nudge.
• A Gratitude Crystal — keep a small, beautiful crystal somewhere you'll see it, nightstand, desk, kitchen table. Every time you pick it up, pause and name one thing you're grateful for. Takes three to four minutes. That's it.

You don't need all of these. Pick one. Do it badly. Do it anyway.

Try it this week and hit reply, I'd love to hear what comes up for you when you finally get quiet enough to hear it.

Keep glowing. Keep growing. You've got this.

— Jax

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